A little poem that caught my attention by Rudy Franciso:
Of all the things I could’ve been,
I am so glad to be this.
Thank God I didn’t actually become who I pretended to be
Back when I had no idea who I was.
What a lovely thought about growth and giving ourselves permission to “just be.” Sometimes it is the expectations that society places on us that get in the way, other times it is our own reckoning about what it means to be successful, and sometimes the messages we get from others help put us into the mode of pretending and we end up living a life that can feel misrepresented to some degree. It is the process of self-reflection, through experience, that allows us to move towards a more genuine place, both with ourselves and others; ultimately bringing with it a courage to be who we are.
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